192434: i think that both of them are good ...for me if i meet some guys that can love me and can stand with me if whatever happen..i will marriage him..because i know him very much and know what the kind of person that i meet...but arrange marriage also good because parent know what good for their children..they can't find person that can ruined their children' life..and most important thing they know their children' behaviour and taste....
hai Miss Nurul..from my opinion, there are pro and cons about both married..
1) Love married
- From love married, we might recognize person that really, really love us...We might know about their attitude, their feeling to us and ect. Other than that, love married might bring both couple to the right way. For example, if the husband love, care to their wife, they will take the responsible to brings their family to the heaven, by conduct the family using Quran & Sunnah. For me, love married is better because we have opportunity to choose guys that we like. For example, I wish to have husband that “soleh, beriman, berilmu,beramal, bertakwa kpd Allah”.. but, its hard to find this kind of guys nowadays.. Once I’ve this guys, I wont let him go ^_^
Some people might sais that love married might cause bored to the couple because they know each other for a long, long time. But, for me, if they love each other because of Allah, there is no term of “bored”. Believe me and the most important, believe in ALLAH. There is a way for you..
2) Arrange married
- Sometimes it happened to person that hard to find their soul mate. So that, they asked their parents to find for them :) there is no parents that not love their children rite? So, parents will find someone that really, really suitable for their children. For example, parents will find someone close to them such as their friend’s children. They will survey before they arrange the married. If parents like someone, they will ask their children first before arrange it. So that there is no arguing after the married. People that involved in arrange married might build their love after the married. They will know each other after married, what he/she like, do and ect. I have sister that my parents try to arrange her married. But, she still not married, huhuhu... I don’t know why :P when I saw how my parents do the arrange married, I respect it. They really, really choose the right one for my sister...
The only disadvantage about arrange married for me is when they really, really don’t know about the person. Sometime, people “talam dua muka” or in other words pretend to be somebody. This happened when the family doesn’t know the actual attitude about the person they want to take as “menantu”. For example, if the future “menantu” is hot tamper person, but not show it before married, it might give impact to their children and so on.
p/s: I think, it enough for me to “merepek”.. hope Miss understand what I’m trying to say :) syukron…
let me devide love into 2:
1- Love because of Allah. 2- Love because of “Nafsu”.
salam miss nurul 192324: My opion is choose love marriage.I choose love marriage because can given happeness in the family. than love marriage to get loving together in life. I very agree abaut love marriage, i see to people love marriage very happy in family and husband and wife very understanding in their life
Assalammaulaikum wrt wbt... Sorry Miss Nurul, i post in Bahasa.. ^_^ just want to share somethigs..hope you don't mind.. :)
Ramai orang berpandangan, kita perlu bercinta untuk mengenal pasangan, tanpa perkenalan, mustahil cinta bertandang, tanpa percintaan, mustahil keserasian di kesan, mereka sebenarnya terlepas pandang, dalam Islam ada taaruf dalam tempoh risik & bertunang, yang melibatkan mahram bukan berdua-duaan, taaruf itulah mendedahkan keserasian, cuma takrif 'taaruf' & 'serasi' dalam fikiran manusia berlainan. Islam mengajar manusia taaruf yang ada sempadan, terpelihara & terjaga dari ajaran kemaksiatan, bukan taaruf melalui bercinta sakan, Islam mengajar serasi dengan ajaran Tuhan, bukan serasi dengan kehendak pasangan cinta Al-Rahman menjana kebahgiaan, lantaran itulah, batasanNya tidak boleh di permainkan..
130625: im prefer to choose love marriage because im want to get marriage not my parents so i need to make my own desicion for my life and happines then i'll ask my parents to get their blessing. if they are agree with my desicion to get marriage with the person that i've chosen i'll marriage with that person. if not, i'll find the other person. although im prefer to get marriage with love marriage but blessing from parents is important.
130729 :i though that love marriage can give individual know is couple with closer. apart time that,we also can find able one partner fulfill features desirableness therefore.they get one satisfaction.however does not wrong it arrange marriage case this is because parents choice ussully they wanted their children get felicities more than choice him. and than is some in one believing with parents choice they. they fear occurence of household split so on individual alone makes choose which they like.
192387:In my opinion,arrange marriage is good for you and both of your parents because you will be a good person and its show that you are so respect of them and you are not selfish. Their parents sometime know what are good for their son future.But love marriage is also good because you marrige because of love and its can be easy to you to build your life with her or his. Love marriage is about 100% trusted each other who couple. this reason can make your life happy.
130733 salam miss Nurul.. in my opinion,love marriage is very good and suitable...love marrige can give happines life and family.Then,love marrige can make relationship very close to wife and husband.love marrige is also can see a profile our future husband and wife actualy his kind,loving,patient,polite and other...so love marrige is good better than arrange marrige..
130735 : in my opinion I choice love marriage because it make me happy for my choice to marriage any body women . i think when we marriege women i love it make be strus , responssible ,and sheel any probleam with her....( not shame ) when we marry women we took and close with her, we also know about is atitud, famaly and so on.....beside that love marriege be more fun and try to search how the best for beginin a new life after merriage.some time people want to freden to condack their life .
192330:I think love marriage better than arrange marriage..it's because couple know each other and it can be a happines life..and for my opinion of arranged marriage is like marrying to a stranger without love..All are due to the strings attached of culture and parents wishes..We dont even know the person at all but we have to stick thin and thick with that person..
192345^^(*.*)assalamualikum...miss nurul...about u topic we discus...a luv marriage n arrange marriage have a pro n con...
abaut me...i agree the luv marriage becauce is marriage can meet u n u cople stay live 4ever...u must undrstdg in life marriage have a hapy n sad.....u can hapy when u cople luv u n u luv you cople.....
in islam..has about marriage modul..4 exmple is u must choice u couple is a iman,bauty,asset,family history...luv is very must important in u life...pray 2 Allah so that Allah can give suitable couple 4 life...amin.....(*.*)
130621: a'kum.... i'm agree about both of topic, love married and arrange married. first, love married,i agree because you can know who you choose and you can understanding, take care , lovely and you are comfortable with her. after that, you want somebody to love you very much. about the arrange married, your parent know what do you want and give you blissing to married. everybody know arrage married will forever. the parent also support to you and find somebody to you is suitable.
130628: assalamualaikum miss nurul...about love or arrange married,i prefer to arrange married..before i go throught, i want you to look at reality now, how many people out there was happily ever after with love marriage..look at malaysian celebrities,they was a good example to refer to..abby abady and norman hakim for example, both of them are loving couple one past day,and now,effect from one cases that norman do,they get divorce,before that they love and trust each other so much...and many example that i cannat put it here,...in the other hand,while i read some articel from iluv islam website, i found that couple is not allowed in islam because of certain thing but im not a rigth person to elobarate that articel...
let go to arrange married,im very agree with that but sometime it also have pro and cons.the best side about arrange married is because it can avoid sin and avoid social problem before we're married..we dont have to think about love each other because we can fall in love after marriage right..in the other part we can get parent blessing and most important thing ALLAH blessing,so why should we choose love marriage..that all thank you
130631 :assalamualaikum miss nurul..about love or arrange married, i choose to love married this is because from that you can know each other. beside that, married is not for a while but forever with your couple so, is important to you choose your couple would you like. all people want get happiness in married, for me that better if you fall in love before married. and for me arrange married make couple not comfortable because you do not know each other.
salam miss nurul.... in my opinion,love married is better than arrange married.for me,love married can we know each other such as about what she or boy like,dislike,family and everthing.besides that,love married can given happeness in the family.example me,my father and my mother arrange maried,they not understanding each other and i think my family not happeness.so i think love is very important before married...
192420: actually both of them have their own advantage n disadvantages....maybe during teenagers they more prefer to love marriage...but for me n refer to my age(im not saying that im already old..hehehe..im 22 years old), i don't think that i can find a nice guy to be my future husband...n i think im too busy with my study n i have no time to find it..n i 'serik' to couple actually bcoz i have an experiece.it really waste my time, my money n what so ever...n now i can saying that i prefer to arrage marriage mybe becoz im still single..but i don't know what will happen in the future..for those which already have a lover,u can prefer to love marriage,it doesn't matter as long as u know ur relationship must based on shariah to get barakah or bless from Allah..(^_^)...~~~
192395-In my opinion,love marriage is better than arrange marriage.For me,love marriage can stay for long term because before one person get married, they already know each other.So,they can understand,take care,respect,loving each other and take more responsibility.This can dicrease misunderstanding between partner and avoid fighting.They also must happy together when their married because they love each other.
bravo and well done.....writing are difficult if we don't have enough vocabulary to express our thought. but don't mind by a frequent practices in reading and writing it will became easy to us..the intention of this blog are to get your perception either it can help you to improve your English or not...just keep writing because there is no right or wrong..TQ
130745 : in my opinion I choice love marriage because it make me heppy.love marriege give me power to choice another women love. i trust and beliave love merriege can give happy life in the future. Love merriege can be more relationship , srust ,and so on betwen each other...beside that love merriage can also a lest avoid it is because we has know about the women such as atitud and so on when we merriege her. it is my opinion .
192364: for me i will choose love marriage. everyone has their own criteria that they want.so they can find anyone that they want to be their future husband or wife to satisfied on their own.for me who that want to get married,he or she that have a right to choose their own candidates to be their life partner.but at the same time we cannot ignore our parents blessing.anyone that we choose must get our parents blessing. but it doesn't mean that arrange marriage is not the right way.both has the pro and contras. Anyway it's depend on ourselves.marriage is something that we cannot to try and error. once we married with someone,we must do our responsible to our family.what happen is a fate......
Assalamualaikum...miss Nurul, 192342 I think love marriage is more better than arange marriage....its because that couple fall in love each other...so it can make a happiness life..i very agree about love marriage because i see to people very happy in family and very understanding in their life.For me if i meet some guys that can love me and can stand with me it whatever happen..i will marriage him because i know him very much and get take care me...
192402: salam miss nurul.... in my opinion,love married is better than arrange married.for me,love married can we know each other such as about what she or boy like,dislike,family and everthing.besides that,love married can given happeness in the family.example me,my father and my mother arrange maried,they not understanding each other and i think my family not happeness.so i think love is very important before married...
130734: in my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because ith love marriage we can know much about the attitude and habit of someone.Love marriage also can know much about the attitude of person.However,other people maybe choose arrange marriage. It all about the person to choose which one they belive because love marriage and arrange marriage can give happiness to everybody.
salam miss nurul 130792: emm... i think arrange marriage better good. why i tell about that...i was long enough realize, we can refer about this era many people not have aim in way. i give example bad about love marriage like actor or singer show something bad about the love marriage.. however the most important, we must follow about islamic. something we must respect suggestion parents, however if we have condidate, we must tell the true about their partner.. but if parents choice the good man and have good behaviour or alim why you can'not accept. honestly if ur want reda from god u must accept what parents choice because god can bless u if u respect ur parents.. so we must think long enough to do decision... and always pray.. insyaALLAH your problem can solve
130725; I think love marriage & arrange marriage have pro & contra each other..but I more buyer to comment aboutlove marriage..I think love is important to get the happiness in our life...I also fall in love around 4 year but I brake up last month..I say like that because love is important to know partner attitude.for me..if I fall in love,I don't hipokric,so we can to be our self to showfor our partner...but I don't think so the arrange marriagge is so bad because the arrange marriage can be happiness if our parent understand their children taste world tday,I think arrange marriage not suitable because their children can push to find their parent fault if they not happy in their life...Is my opinion..sory if I over to comment this..I'm still 21th...ha3..anyway be ur self ok..best of luck miss nurul..bye...
s128551: assalammuaikum to most beautiful and nice lecturer miss nurul huda.
this is my opinion for your topic...=P
both the marriage got pro and cons..so depend on you to choose one of that.
for me love marriage is more good to choose becouse when we are fall in love, we can know about our couple from many side. he or she can be your future husband or wife or not. from this stage, we learn more about our choosen which is ok or not ok to be our future couple. before we get marriage, we try to understand our couple first and from that way we can know is it that is right person who to be our couple in the marriage..so if we are happy in our love, that means our family also happy..but if our family not happy with our choosen,still not to late to try find another one..so everything in our control if we are still single because we dont have any comitment..but at the another side...if we are getting marriage without know the real character of our couple, that is very bad..many divorce case can happen..so, we must to know deep inside of that couple who we choose..try to inculcate in our mind to choose the right person to avoid divorce happen...
so miss nurul, that all from me... thank a lot.. keep in touch.
130743 salam miss nurul in my opinion i choose a arrange mariage because the parents know what criteria that their children want.it also can waste our time because if we couple with someone and then we dont mariage our couple or break up so it waste our time. the mariage must get blessing from Allah and our parents. sometimes the love mariage can increase the social problem such as run away with boyfriend to lambok.
192370:I think love marriage better than arrange marriage because love marriage they can know each other and can share everthing expecially their problem with they partner..love marriage can stay for long term because they can understand,take care and more responsibility in their marriage...
192420: salam...i prefer to study abroad...as we know, abroad can improve our english very well bcoz of desprate situation...we must to speak in english everywhere..n we can learn about foreign culture, their food n everything...(^_^)....~~~
192345....slm miss nurul...maaf kerana sy komen dalam bahasa melayu..dalam mempersoalkan masalah ini saya begitu tertarik dengan tajuk yg telah dipersoalkan dlm blo0g cik nurul...dalam soal perkahwinan ini adalah banyak diperkatakan kerana ianya melibatkan persoalan kehidupan suami isteri..sesuguhnya kehidupan suami isteri menuntuk kesabaran dan juga memberi kebahagian kepada seseorang...walaupun begitu ada juga kekangan yang dihadapi dalam kehidupan rumahtangga...cinta ataupun ditentukan oleh keluarga adalah salah satu permasalahan yang dihadapi..cinta sebenar adalah cinta yang menuntuk kesabaran dan juga pengorbanan yang tinggi..adakah kita tidak mahu semua ni yang terjadi kepada kita???cinta yang bahagia...cinta yang sentiasa mekar dalam perkahwinan?dalam situasi yang ditentukan oleh keluarga pula adalah satu perkara yang begitu rumit dan juga memberi satu permasalahan kepada kita kerana kita tidak mengenali siapa yang dijodohkan oleh family kita..kita hanya tahu apa yang kita mahukan dan ape yg kita sukai..adakah kita hendak menipu diri sendiri untuk kebahagiaan keluarga kita sahaja???apa2 pon..hanya kita sahaja yang thu...berbalik kepada Allah..berdoalah kepadanya supaya kita diberi jodoh yang sesuai dan bahagia...Aminnnn...
salam miss Nurul... 192324.; I choose to study in oversea.. I choose study because for to find many and new experience for oversea. then i want see lifestyle people at oversea.at oversea lifestyle interesting in the life.example..my ambition i want to go study at New Zealand..I hope in Malaysia,goverment support to student go to oversea...
If had been giving a choice either study in foreign university, of course i will accept it. That's a way for me as a malay guy to success and improve myself. Jauh berjalan luas pengalaman. Tuntutlah ilmu dari kecil sampai ke liang lahad. Seumur hidup, ilmu takkan habis.. I always keep trying to improve myself to show that i can beat "them". They are look very down to us. They think that we're weak and lazy. We must change that perception. this is our country, why we must lose to them. Malay Life !
Not to say we no need to study at local universitys. We can do a degree in local university or cont. master level at foreign unv. what..
192331:Arrange marriage is the best way to share my life with someone who my parent choose as my life partner.Love after marriage is more interesting than love before marriage.
Assalamualaikum Miss Nurul... 192383: I think both of love marriage and arrange marriage have their own advantages and disadvantages. For me, i agree to love marriage because we can know our couple and easy to have understand each other..also, it make us to be happiness with a guy or girl that we know closely. but nowadas it so hard to find a guy who responsible,kind and have religion knowledge. if it hard to me to find a couple,i need my parents to find a soul mate to me because they want the best to their children and will find a good couple to us. i beleive Allah s.w.t. give everyone a soul mate,so we need to pray he gives us a good couple
salam....miss nurul (^*^)130792 actually we ca not predict the future... but if "jodoh" we just eccept that..so we must trust only god can give the best result.. so we must always pray to meet someone we love...
42 comments:
i would prefer arrange marriage because my parents understand my taste..
i am not sure.. i think love...is important
zol: love is blind.so, i'll go for arrange marriage
192418
i'd like to prefer love marriage..arrange marriage takes much time to know and understand to each other.
192434: i think that both of them are good ...for me if i meet some guys that can love me and can stand with me if whatever happen..i will marriage him..because i know him very much and know what the kind of person that i meet...but arrange marriage also good because parent know what good for their children..they can't find person that can ruined their children' life..and most important thing they know their children' behaviour and taste....
Assalammualaikum Miss Nurul.. (192408)
hai Miss Nurul..from my opinion, there are pro and cons about both married..
1) Love married
- From love married, we might recognize person that really, really love us...We might know about their attitude, their feeling to us and ect. Other than that, love married might bring both couple to the right way. For example, if the husband love, care to their wife, they will take the responsible to brings their family to the heaven, by conduct the family using Quran & Sunnah. For me, love married is better because we have opportunity to choose guys that we like. For example, I wish to have husband that “soleh, beriman, berilmu,beramal, bertakwa kpd Allah”.. but, its hard to find this kind of guys nowadays.. Once I’ve this guys, I wont let him go ^_^
Some people might sais that love married might cause bored to the couple because they know each other for a long, long time. But, for me, if they love each other because of Allah, there is no term of “bored”. Believe me and the most important, believe in ALLAH. There is a way for you..
2) Arrange married
- Sometimes it happened to person that hard to find their soul mate. So that, they asked their parents to find for them :) there is no parents that not love their children rite? So, parents will find someone that really, really suitable for their children. For example, parents will find someone close to them such as their friend’s children. They will survey before they arrange the married. If parents like someone, they will ask their children first before arrange it. So that there is no arguing after the married. People that involved in arrange married might build their love after the married. They will know each other after married, what he/she like, do and ect. I have sister that my parents try to arrange her married. But, she still not married, huhuhu... I don’t know why :P when I saw how my parents do the arrange married, I respect it. They really, really choose the right one for my sister...
The only disadvantage about arrange married for me is when they really, really don’t know about the person. Sometime, people “talam dua muka” or in other words pretend to be somebody. This happened when the family doesn’t know the actual attitude about the person they want to take as “menantu”. For example, if the future “menantu” is hot tamper person, but not show it before married, it might give impact to their children and so on.
p/s: I think, it enough for me to “merepek”.. hope Miss understand what I’m trying to say :) syukron…
let me devide love into 2:
1- Love because of Allah.
2- Love because of “Nafsu”.
Please choose the right one :)
salam miss nurul
192324: My opion is choose love marriage.I choose love marriage because can given happeness in the family. than love marriage to get loving together in life. I very agree abaut love marriage, i see to people love marriage very happy in family and husband and wife very understanding in their life
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Assalammaulaikum wrt wbt...
Sorry Miss Nurul, i post in Bahasa.. ^_^ just want to share somethigs..hope you don't mind.. :)
Ramai orang berpandangan, kita perlu bercinta untuk mengenal pasangan, tanpa perkenalan, mustahil cinta bertandang, tanpa percintaan, mustahil keserasian di kesan, mereka sebenarnya terlepas pandang, dalam Islam ada taaruf dalam tempoh risik & bertunang, yang melibatkan mahram bukan berdua-duaan, taaruf itulah mendedahkan keserasian, cuma takrif 'taaruf' & 'serasi' dalam fikiran manusia berlainan. Islam mengajar manusia taaruf yang ada sempadan, terpelihara & terjaga dari ajaran kemaksiatan, bukan taaruf melalui bercinta sakan, Islam mengajar serasi dengan ajaran Tuhan, bukan serasi dengan kehendak pasangan cinta Al-Rahman menjana kebahgiaan, lantaran itulah, batasanNya tidak boleh di permainkan..
130625: im prefer to choose love marriage because im want to get marriage not my parents so i need to make my own desicion for my life and happines then i'll ask my parents to get their blessing. if they are agree with my desicion to get marriage with the person that i've chosen i'll marriage with that person. if not, i'll find the other person. although im prefer to get marriage with love marriage but blessing from parents is important.
130729 :i though that love marriage can give individual know is couple with closer. apart time that,we also can find able one partner fulfill features desirableness therefore.they get one satisfaction.however does not wrong it arrange marriage case this is because parents choice ussully they wanted their children get felicities more than choice him. and than is some in one believing with parents choice they. they fear occurence of household split so on individual alone makes choose which they like.
192387:In my opinion,arrange marriage is good for you and both of your parents because you will be a good person and its show that you are so respect of them and you are not selfish. Their parents sometime know what are good for their son future.But love marriage is also good because you marrige because of love and its can be easy to you to build your life with her or his. Love marriage is about 100% trusted each other who couple. this reason can make your life happy.
192327.my opion i choose love marriage because i can understand to each other befor marriage.
130733
salam miss Nurul..
in my opinion,love marriage is very good and suitable...love marrige can give happines life and family.Then,love marrige can make relationship very close to wife and husband.love marrige is also can see a profile our future husband and wife actualy his kind,loving,patient,polite and other...so love marrige is good better than arrange marrige..
130735 : in my opinion I choice love marriage because it make me happy for my choice to marriage any body women . i think when we marriege women i love it make be strus , responssible ,and sheel any probleam with her....( not shame ) when we marry women we took and close with her, we also know about is atitud, famaly and so on.....beside that love marriege be more fun and try to search how the best for beginin a new life after merriage.some time people want to freden to condack their life .
192330:I think love marriage better than arrange marriage..it's because couple know each other and it can be a happines life..and for my opinion of arranged marriage is like marrying to a stranger without love..All are due to the strings attached of culture and parents wishes..We dont even know the person at all but we have to stick thin and thick with that person..
192345^^(*.*)assalamualikum...miss nurul...about u topic we discus...a luv marriage n arrange marriage have a pro n con...
abaut me...i agree the luv marriage becauce is marriage can meet u n u cople stay live 4ever...u must undrstdg in life marriage have a hapy n sad.....u can hapy when u cople luv u n u luv you cople.....
in islam..has about marriage modul..4 exmple is u must choice u couple is a iman,bauty,asset,family history...luv is very must important in u life...pray 2 Allah so that Allah can give suitable couple 4 life...amin.....(*.*)
130621: a'kum.... i'm agree about both of topic, love married and arrange married. first, love married,i agree because you can know who you choose and you can understanding, take care , lovely and you are comfortable with her. after that, you want somebody to love you very much. about the arrange married, your parent know what do you want and give you blissing to married. everybody know arrage married will forever. the parent also support to you and find somebody to you is suitable.
130628: assalamualaikum miss nurul...about love or arrange married,i prefer to arrange married..before i go throught, i want you to look at reality now, how many people out there was happily ever after with love marriage..look at malaysian celebrities,they was a good example to refer to..abby abady and norman hakim for example, both of them are loving couple one past day,and now,effect from one cases that norman do,they get divorce,before that they love and trust each other so much...and many example that i cannat put it here,...in the other hand,while i read some articel from iluv islam website, i found that couple is not allowed in islam because of certain thing but im not a rigth person to elobarate that articel...
let go to arrange married,im very agree with that but sometime it also have pro and cons.the best side about arrange married is because it can avoid sin and avoid social problem before we're married..we dont have to think about love each other because we can fall in love after marriage right..in the other part we can get parent blessing and most important thing ALLAH blessing,so why should we choose love marriage..that all thank you
130631 :assalamualaikum miss nurul..about love or arrange married, i choose to love married this is because from that you can know each other. beside that, married is not for a while but forever with your couple so, is important to you choose your couple would you like. all people want get happiness in married, for me that better if you fall in love before married. and for me arrange married make couple not comfortable because you do not know each other.
salam miss nurul....
in my opinion,love married is better than arrange married.for me,love married can we know each other such as about what she or boy like,dislike,family and everthing.besides that,love married can given happeness in the family.example me,my father and my mother arrange maried,they not understanding each other and i think my family not happeness.so i think love is very important before married...
192420: actually both of them have their own advantage n disadvantages....maybe during teenagers they more prefer to love marriage...but for me n refer to my age(im not saying that im already old..hehehe..im 22 years old), i don't think that i can find a nice guy to be my future husband...n i think im too busy with my study n i have no time to find it..n i 'serik' to couple actually bcoz i have an experiece.it really waste my time, my money n what so ever...n now i can saying that i prefer to arrage marriage mybe becoz im still single..but i don't know what will happen in the future..for those which already have a lover,u can prefer to love marriage,it doesn't matter as long as u know ur relationship must based on shariah to get barakah or bless from Allah..(^_^)...~~~
192395-In my opinion,love marriage is better than arrange marriage.For me,love marriage can stay for long term because before one person get married, they already know each other.So,they can understand,take care,respect,loving each other and take more responsibility.This can dicrease misunderstanding between partner and avoid fighting.They also must happy together when their married because they love each other.
bravo and well done.....writing are difficult if we don't have enough vocabulary to express our thought. but don't mind by a frequent practices in reading and writing it will became easy to us..the intention of this blog are to get your perception either it can help you to improve your English or not...just keep writing because there is no right or wrong..TQ
130745 : in my opinion I choice love marriage because it make me heppy.love marriege give me power to choice another women love. i trust and beliave love merriege can give happy life in the future. Love merriege can be more relationship , srust ,and so on betwen each other...beside that love merriage can also a lest avoid it is because we has know about the women such as atitud and so on when we merriege her. it is my opinion .
192364:
for me i will choose love marriage.
everyone has their own criteria that they want.so they can find anyone that they want to be their future husband or wife to satisfied on their own.for me who that want to get married,he or she that have a right to choose their own candidates to be their life partner.but at the same time we cannot ignore our parents blessing.anyone that we choose must get our parents blessing.
but it doesn't mean that arrange marriage is not the right way.both has the pro and contras.
Anyway it's depend on ourselves.marriage is something that we cannot to try and error.
once we married with someone,we must do our responsible to our family.what happen is a fate......
Assalamualaikum...miss Nurul, 192342 I think love marriage is more better than arange marriage....its because that couple fall in love each other...so it can make a happiness life..i very agree about love marriage because i see to people very happy in family and very understanding in their life.For me if i meet some guys that can love me and can stand with me it whatever happen..i will marriage him because i know him very much and get take care me...
192402:
salam miss nurul....
in my opinion,love married is better than arrange married.for me,love married can we know each other such as about what she or boy like,dislike,family and everthing.besides that,love married can given happeness in the family.example me,my father and my mother arrange maried,they not understanding each other and i think my family not happeness.so i think love is very important before married...
130734:
in my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because ith love marriage we can know much about the attitude and habit of someone.Love marriage also can know much about the attitude of person.However,other people maybe choose arrange marriage. It all about the person to choose which one they belive because love marriage and arrange marriage can give happiness to everybody.
salam miss nurul
130792: emm... i think arrange marriage better good. why i tell about that...i was long enough realize, we can refer about this era many people not have aim in way. i give example bad about love marriage like actor or singer show something bad about the love marriage.. however the most important, we must follow about islamic. something we must respect suggestion parents, however if we have condidate, we must tell the true about their partner.. but if parents choice the good man and have good behaviour or alim why you can'not accept. honestly if ur want reda from god u must accept what parents choice because god can bless u if u respect ur parents.. so we must think long enough to do decision... and always pray.. insyaALLAH your problem can solve
130725;
I think love marriage & arrange marriage have pro & contra each other..but I more buyer to comment aboutlove marriage..I think love is important to get the happiness in our life...I also fall in love around 4 year but I brake up last month..I say like that because love is important to know partner attitude.for me..if I fall in love,I don't hipokric,so we can to be our self to showfor our partner...but I don't think so the arrange marriagge is so bad because the arrange marriage can be happiness if our parent understand their children taste world tday,I think arrange marriage not suitable because their children can push to find their parent fault if they not happy in their life...Is my opinion..sory if I over to comment this..I'm still 21th...ha3..anyway be ur self ok..best of luck miss nurul..bye...
s128551: assalammuaikum to most beautiful and nice lecturer miss nurul huda.
this is my opinion for your topic...=P
both the marriage got pro and cons..so depend on you to choose one of that.
for me love marriage is more good to choose becouse when we are fall in love, we can know about our couple from many side. he or she can be your future husband or wife or not. from this stage, we learn more about our choosen which is ok or not ok to be our future couple. before we get marriage, we try to understand our couple first and from that way we can know is it that is right person who to be our couple in the marriage..so if we are happy in our love, that means our family also happy..but if our family not happy with our choosen,still not to late to try find another one..so everything in our control if we are still single because we dont have any comitment..but at the another side...if we are getting marriage without know the real character of our couple, that is very bad..many divorce case can happen..so, we must to know deep inside of that couple who we choose..try to inculcate in our mind to choose the right person to avoid divorce happen...
so miss nurul, that all from me...
thank a lot..
keep in touch.
192372: arrange marriage is like having dinner in a dark room with ur couple. With out any light. It's black, quite and it is cold
130743
salam miss nurul
in my opinion i choose a arrange mariage because the parents know what criteria that their children want.it also can waste our time because if we couple with someone and then we dont mariage our couple or break up so it waste our time. the mariage must get blessing from Allah and our parents. sometimes the love mariage can increase the social problem such as run away with boyfriend to lambok.
192370:I think love marriage better than arrange marriage because love marriage they can know each other and can share everthing expecially their problem with they partner..love marriage can stay for long term because they can understand,take care and more responsibility in their marriage...
192420: salam...i prefer to study abroad...as we know, abroad can improve our english very well bcoz of desprate situation...we must to speak in english everywhere..n we can learn about foreign culture, their food n everything...(^_^)....~~~
192345....slm miss nurul...maaf kerana sy komen dalam bahasa melayu..dalam mempersoalkan masalah ini saya begitu tertarik dengan tajuk yg telah dipersoalkan dlm blo0g cik nurul...dalam soal perkahwinan ini adalah banyak diperkatakan kerana ianya melibatkan persoalan kehidupan suami isteri..sesuguhnya kehidupan suami isteri menuntuk kesabaran dan juga memberi kebahagian kepada seseorang...walaupun begitu ada juga kekangan yang dihadapi dalam kehidupan rumahtangga...cinta ataupun ditentukan oleh keluarga adalah salah satu permasalahan yang dihadapi..cinta sebenar adalah cinta yang menuntuk kesabaran dan juga pengorbanan yang tinggi..adakah kita tidak mahu semua ni yang terjadi kepada kita???cinta yang bahagia...cinta yang sentiasa mekar dalam perkahwinan?dalam situasi yang ditentukan oleh keluarga pula adalah satu perkara yang begitu rumit dan juga memberi satu permasalahan kepada kita kerana kita tidak mengenali siapa yang dijodohkan oleh family kita..kita hanya tahu apa yang kita mahukan dan ape yg kita sukai..adakah kita hendak menipu diri sendiri untuk kebahagiaan keluarga kita sahaja???apa2 pon..hanya kita sahaja yang thu...berbalik kepada Allah..berdoalah kepadanya supaya kita diberi jodoh yang sesuai dan bahagia...Aminnnn...
salam miss Nurul...
192324.;
I choose to study in oversea.. I choose study because for to find many and new experience for oversea. then i want see lifestyle people at oversea.at oversea lifestyle interesting in the life.example..my ambition i want to go study at New Zealand..I hope in Malaysia,goverment support to student go to oversea...
Topic 2..
192337
If had been giving a choice either study in foreign university, of course i will accept it. That's a way for me as a malay guy to success and improve myself. Jauh berjalan luas pengalaman. Tuntutlah ilmu dari kecil sampai ke liang lahad. Seumur hidup, ilmu takkan habis.. I always keep trying to improve myself to show that i can beat "them". They are look very down to us. They think that we're weak and lazy. We must change that perception. this is our country, why we must lose to them. Malay Life !
Not to say we no need to study at local universitys. We can do a degree in local university or cont. master level at foreign unv. what..
Tq..
192331:Arrange marriage is the best way to share my life with someone who my parent choose as my life partner.Love after marriage is more interesting than love before marriage.
Assalamualaikum Miss Nurul...
192383:
I think both of love marriage and arrange marriage have their own advantages and disadvantages. For me, i agree to love marriage because we can know our couple and easy to have understand each other..also, it make us to be happiness with a guy or girl that we know closely. but nowadas it so hard to find a guy who responsible,kind and have religion knowledge. if it hard to me to find a couple,i need my parents to find a soul mate to me because they want the best to their children and will find a good couple to us. i beleive Allah s.w.t. give everyone a soul mate,so we need to pray he gives us a good couple
salam....miss nurul
(^*^)130792
actually we ca not predict the future... but if "jodoh" we just eccept that..so we must trust only god can give the best result.. so we must always pray to meet someone we love...
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